What If Love Beat Your Fears?

I was having conversation with a friend the other day who had a big decision to make. She was really stressed and anxious that she would make the wrong decision, and came up with a whole host of What If scenarios…all with negative consequences.

I flipped the What If’s to positive ones, the exact opposite of the ones she had come up with. She instantly calmed down.  The more she thought about it, the more she realised that the probability of the positive What If scenarios occurring were much higher than the negative ones. Finally she was able to make her decision from a place of balance, and a place of love.

So why is it that we get so easily sucked into negative What If scenarios when we are faced with decisions?

Quite simply, Fear.

Fear in an umbrella term for a long list of low-vibrational, negative emotions. When fear-based emotions are felt but not released correctly, they become trapped and stored within the body. They vibrate continuously, keeping you in a constant state of fear.

This is why it is so easy to gravitate towards fear-based What If scenarios.

These What If’s hold so many heart-centred business owners back from creating the money, success and growth their soul truly desires. It holds them back from reaching the people that really need their work, and from making the difference in the world that they know deep down they are capable of.

• What if I fail?
• What if people laugh at me?
• What if I lose all of my money?
• What if I’m not good enough?
• What if no-one likes me?
• What if people make negative comments about me?

Do any of these sound familiar? Let’s flip them, and see how they feel.

• What if I succeed?
• What if people are inspired by me?
• What if I earn a lot of money?
• What if I am great at what I do?
• What if people love me?
• What if I receive loads of messages of love and support?

The interesting thing to note here is whether you still feel fear when saying the positive What If’s. Then you know there are stored fear-based emotions that need releasing!

• What if you were to release your fears?
• What if love was able to beat all of your fears?

Now there’s a What if that’s worth considering.